On its most basic level, adventure is just plain fun and a cool experience to write and \u2018gram about. And stepping outside of your comfort zone won\u2019t just make your life feel more interesting, it will also change you for the better \u2014 making you bolder and more self-assured while improving your social skills. Behavioral scientist and globe-trotter extraordinaire Jon Levy details his scientific approach to defining and fostering novelty in his book, The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure. We took cues from Levy and other larger-than-life personas to identify nine ways that everyone can sneak more excitement into their daily lives.<\/p>\n
1. Make new friends.<\/strong><\/p>\n Use small talk to chat with new people with diverse backgrounds and viewpoints. Opening yourself up to new friends will challenge you to think differently about all areas of life.<\/p>\n 2. Test the waters.<\/strong><\/p>\n Go ahead; try everything you\u2019ve ever dreamed of! Think you want to start rock climbing? Ask around and find someone who can show you the ropes (pun intended!). Even if you find out something isn\u2019t for you, after all, you\u2019ll still gain a new buddy and a funny story about how awkward you were. Best case: You find yourself a year later on a cross-country journey to climb every major mountain in the country.<\/p>\n 3. Say \u201cyes\u201d instead of \u201cno.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n We don\u2019t mean you should max yourself out by taking on another project or that you should have that distant cousin couch-surf for another month. But if someone invites you to do something different and you\u2019re feeling insecure or lazy, fight the urge to resist, and go for it instead.<\/p>\n 4. Turn ordinary occasions into extraordinary occasions.<\/strong><\/p>\n Levy recommends that you think through the narrative of what you\u2019re doing and how interesting it sounds. Going to a bar with your friends isn\u2019t anything new. Going to the bar with your friends and agreeing to only talk to strangers? Who knows what can happen.<\/p>\n 5. Commit to exploring.<\/strong><\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to decamp to some far-flung locale or quit your day job to travel the world, but even just scheduling a slight deviation from your home-base on a regular basis will unleash a consistent flow of new possibilities. Once a month, take the train to a chic hotel in a neighboring town, go on a hike you\u2019ve never been on, or drive halfway to meet a friend somewhere in the middle. Meanwhile, create a travel fund that will help you cross off one dream destination per year.<\/p>\n 6. Set yourself up to fail.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sure, failing sucks. But it can also be what helps us grow the most. Think about something you\u2019ve been intimidated to try \u2014 coding, surfing, learning Mandarin \u2014 and take the first step toward acquiring the skill. You may surprise yourself with what you can do, and you\u2019ll even learn from what you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n 7. Get physical.<\/strong><\/p>\n Just like our minds, our bodies need to be challenged too. You get a surge of adrenaline every time you try something new and challenging. The adventure can be mild or wild depending on how you define fear. Whether you go skydiving, sleep outside under the stars, or get dirty in a mud race, the idea is to push your physical boundaries and get a little uncomfortable.<\/p>\n 8. Don\u2019t plan for it.<\/strong><\/p>\n A lot of us make the mistake of setting out on any adventure \u2014 whether it be a night out on the town, first date, or vacation to be \u2014 wait for it\u2026 legendary. Expectations are a total buzz kill. The next time you go out with friends or embark on a trip, leave behind the pressure of having it be \u201cso much fun,\u201d and instead just enjoy where you are and who you\u2019re with.<\/p>\n 9. Know your limits.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are a million ways to chase adventure, and none of them should get you to a place where you feel unsafe or compromised. Push yourself to take chances, but always trust your intuition.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n This article first appeared on brit.co and was written by Stephanie Granada, published May 14, 2017<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" On its most basic level, adventure is just plain fun and a cool experience to write and \u2018gram about. 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